# @juleswaller_ on Instagram

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- **Original URL:** https://www.instagram.com/p/DbzqyllE4-J
- **Gondola URL:** https://gondola.cc/posts/68853903-juleswaller-instagram
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- **Posted:** 2026-08-09T05:17:31.000+00:00
- **Account Owner:** Julie Waller (Jules) | School Refusal Support (@juleswaller_) — https://gondola.cc/juleswaller_

## Caption

I spent years thinking I just hadn’t found the right expert yet.

Every appointment, every conversation, every late night search added to a pile of advice that all sounded reasonable. 

But none of it changed our mornings.

It wasn’t until I stopped looking for a better explanation and started asking a different question that anything shifted. 

Not “how do I convince them to go,” but “what is their body doing right now, and why.”

My own child missed over 100 days of school in one school year alone. I dare not count how many she missed over her high school life. 

But she graduated and she’s at their first choice uni now. 

I’m not saying it happens overnight. 
I’m saying the mornings can stop looking like this.
It took us years.  I don’t want that for you.

Comment TOOLKIT and I’ll send you what actually helped, straight to your DMs.

With hope,

Jules ❤️

#schoolrefusal #schoolanxiety #schoolstress #teenmentalhealth #childrensmentalhealth

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schoolrefusal, schoolanxiety, schoolstress, teenmentalhealth, childrensmentalhealth

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