# @paulscanlonuk on Instagram

- **Type:** Video
- **Original URL:** https://www.instagram.com/p/Dbs4PxfzXZb
- **Gondola URL:** https://gondola.cc/posts/68929929-paulscanlonuk-instagram
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- **Posted:** 2026-08-06T19:00:02.000+00:00
- **Account Owner:** Paul Scanlon (@paulscanlonuk) — https://gondola.cc/paulscanlonuk

## Caption

Drop a ❤️ 🙌🏽 🔥 if this resonates.
Unlearning isn’t just about changing your mind.

Sometimes it’s about changing patterns that were handed to you by people you love. And that’s what makes it difficult.

Because every change you make can feel like you’re rejecting the person who taught you. But you don’t have to reject the person to reject the pattern.

Growth often means honouring the relationship while letting go of what no longer serves you.
The strongest foundations are built by unlearning what isn’t working before trying to build something new.

This was a clip from when I was a guest on kelliefennellfitness podcast.

#unlearning #selfawareness #relationshipadvice #boundaries

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unlearning, selfawareness, relationshipadvice, boundaries

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