# @juleswaller_ on Instagram

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- **Original URL:** https://www.instagram.com/p/DcLJdL7k0wY
- **Gondola URL:** https://gondola.cc/posts/69142922-juleswaller-instagram
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- **Posted:** 2026-08-18T08:08:00.000+00:00
- **Account Owner:** Julie Waller (Jules) | School Refusal Support (@juleswaller_) — https://gondola.cc/juleswaller_

## Caption

You’ve read the scripts. 
Bookmarked the carousels. 
Screenshotted the “here’s exactly what to say” posts.

And you still don’t know what to actually do when it’s 7:45am and your kid won’t get in the car.

Here’s the thing - it’s not that the advice out there is wrong. 

But the research is clear that the psychology piece alone often isn’t enough on its own. 

Not because it’s the wrong approach - but because a script only works on a nervous system that’s calm enough to hear it.

My toolkit has both. 
Everything a psych would tell you to say and do - plus the regulation piece that makes it actually land. Not more to memorize. 

The full picture, finally in one place.

If you’re ready for that - comment TOOLKIT and I’ll send it to you.

With calm,

- Jules ♥️

#schoolrefusal #schoolanxiety #gotoschool #teenmentalhealth #childrensmentalhealth

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schoolrefusal, schoolanxiety, gotoschool, teenmentalhealth, childrensmentalhealth

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