# @bolababy8678 on TikTok

- **Type:** Video
- **Original URL:** https://www.tiktok.com/@bolababy8678/video/7676125029817502990
- **Gondola URL:** https://gondola.cc/posts/69410540-bolababy8678-tiktok
- **Thumbnail:** https://img.gondola.cc/tr:w-,h-,fo-auto/postThumbnails/c8fbc5b6f4.jpg
- **Posted:** 2026-08-20T14:45:46.000+00:00
- **Account Owner:** Ashley Favors (@bolababy8678) — https://gondola.cc/bolababy8678

## Caption

I lost myself for a while. Somewhere between loving everyone else, showing up for everyone else, and pouring into people who didn’t pour back into me, I forgot that I needed love too. But I’m finding my way back to myself. I’m learning to put myself first without feeling guilty, to protect my peace, and to give myself the same patience, grace, and unconditional love I’ve spent years giving away. I’m not becoming selfish. I’m becoming whole again. Because all the love I’ve been giving everyone else… I deserve to receive that too. And this time, I’m making sure I don’t lose myself trying to love someone else. 🖤 #HealingJourney #ChooseYourself #SelfLove #ProtectYourPeace #xyzbca 

## Stats

- **Views:** 3,105
- **Likes:** 448
- **Shares:** 4
- **Comments:** 20

## Credits

| Name | Username | Profile | Role |
| --- | --- | --- | --- |
| Ashley Favors | @bolababy8678 | https://gondola.cc/bolababy8678 | Creator |

## Tags

xyzbca, chooseyourself, protectyourpeace, healingjourney, selflove

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