# @paulscanlonuk on Instagram

- **Type:** Video
- **Original URL:** https://www.instagram.com/p/DcWE-q9Tzub
- **Gondola URL:** https://gondola.cc/posts/69559581-paulscanlonuk-instagram
- **Thumbnail:** https://img.gondola.cc/tr:w-,h-,fo-auto/postThumbnails/6a3e480655.jpg
- **Posted:** 2026-08-22T14:00:07.000+00:00
- **Account Owner:** Paul Scanlon (@paulscanlonuk) — https://gondola.cc/paulscanlonuk

## Caption

When someone comes to you with a problem, what do you instinctively give them?

A solution?  A strategy?
 Or simply a listening ear?

Sometimes people don’t want us to fix anything. They just want to feel heard.
Try asking: “Do you want empathy right now, or strategy?”

It could completely change the conversation.

#selfawareness #CommunicationSkills #empathy #EmotionalIntelligence #Leadership

## Stats

- **Views:** 1,551
- **Likes:** 65
- **Shares:** 0
- **Comments:** 13

## Tags

leadership, emotionalintelligence, communicationskills, empathy, selfawareness

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