# @un_filtered_wisdom on Instagram

- **Type:** Video
- **Original URL:** https://www.instagram.com/p/DcbC2Uehy1W
- **Gondola URL:** https://gondola.cc/posts/69680623-un-filtered-wisdom-instagram
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- **Posted:** 2026-08-24T12:19:52.000+00:00
- **Account Owner:** Rhaab Grien (@un_filtered_wisdom) — https://gondola.cc/un_filtered_wisdom

## Caption

Men and women often think they're attracted to the same things—but we're not.

A woman might spend $200 on her nails, $150 at the stylist, and another $500 on an outfit before a date, thinking all of that is going to make a huge difference to a man.

But here's the reality: most men aren't noticing 99% the things you're stressing over.

If we're already attracted to you, you could show up with minimal makeup, a tank top, old jean shorts, and flip-flops, and we'd probably still be just as interested.

That's because many of the things women invest heavily in before a date aren't necessarily things men are asking for. They're things that make you feel more attractive, confident, and desirable.

And there's nothing wrong with that.

But don't confuse what makes you feel beautiful with what actually matters to him.

You can project your own priorities onto someone else and assume they share them simply because they're important to you.

They're not necessarily important to him.

#DatingAdvice #Relationships #MenAndWomen #DatingReality #ModernDating FemaleAttraction MaleAttraction DatingTips RelationshipAdvice GenderDifferences

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- **Likes:** 42
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## Tags

menandwomen, relationships, moderndating, datingadvice, datingreality

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