# @paulscanlonuk on Instagram

- **Type:** Video
- **Original URL:** https://www.instagram.com/p/DcyZtn-s1Yk
- **Gondola URL:** https://gondola.cc/posts/69871351-paulscanlonuk-instagram
- **Thumbnail:** https://img.gondola.cc/tr:w-,h-,fo-auto/postThumbnails/1835eba3e8.jpg
- **Posted:** 2026-09-02T14:00:04.000+00:00
- **Account Owner:** Paul Scanlon (@paulscanlonuk) — https://gondola.cc/paulscanlonuk

## Caption

Sometimes the people closest to us get the worst version of us.

We become so comfortable in the relationships we feel safest in that we can start taking their love, patience and presence for granted — while giving our energy, attention and best selves to people we barely know.
That’s the safety tax.

The people who love you most shouldn’t have to pay the price for being the ones you know will stay.
So today, ask yourself: Am I giving the best of me to the people who matter most?
Stop charging your family and loved ones the safety tax. ❤️

#safetytaxt #boundaries #selfawareness #relationshipadvice #emotionalintelligence

## Stats

- **Views:** 866
- **Likes:** 30
- **Shares:** 0
- **Comments:** 5

## Tags

selfawareness, emotionalintelligence, relationshipadvice, safetytaxt, boundaries

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