# @paulscanlonuk on Instagram

- **Type:** Image
- **Original URL:** https://www.instagram.com/p/Dclbaz0qdom
- **Gondola URL:** https://gondola.cc/posts/69871361-paulscanlonuk-instagram
- **Thumbnail:** https://img.gondola.cc/tr:w-,h-,fo-auto/postThumbnails/7ba8290683.jpg
- **Posted:** 2026-08-30T14:00:05.000+00:00
- **Account Owner:** Paul Scanlon (@paulscanlonuk) — https://gondola.cc/paulscanlonuk

## Caption

Not everyone is going to celebrate the version of you you’re becoming.

Sometimes your growth will make people uncomfortable because they preferred the smaller, quieter, more accommodating version of you.

But you don’t need to shrink yourself to make other people feel better about their choices.
Learn to be disliked without taking it personally.
Their reaction to your growth is theirs to carry — not yours.
It’s all good. 

#Boundaries #SelfAwareness #PersonalGrowth #RelationshipAdvice #Confidence

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## Tags

selfawareness, relationshipadvice, confidence, personalgrowth, boundaries

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