# @thecut on Instagram

- **Type:** Image
- **Original URL:** https://www.instagram.com/p/DcyTHZQGzuC
- **Gondola URL:** https://gondola.cc/posts/70034249-thecut-instagram
- **Thumbnail:** https://img.gondola.cc/tr:w-,h-,fo-auto/postThumbnails/e312dd6238.jpg
- **Posted:** 2026-09-02T13:03:36.000+00:00
- **Account Owner:** The Cut (@thecut) — https://gondola.cc/thecut

## Caption

This week on #GoingThroughIt, a letter-writer wonders if their strict adherence to a schedule is ruining their shot at finding love. “The spontaneous third drink at the bar — where I could maybe, finally meet someone — is off the table before it’s even *on* the table,” they write. Swipe through to read their letter, and read Allison P. Davis’s response at the link in bio.

This story is a part of #BoundariesWeek, a series exploring all the ways we’re setting — and overstepping — our boundaries.

Illustration by liakantro

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goingthroughit, boundariesweek

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