# @the.second.button on Instagram

- **Type:** Video
- **Original URL:** https://www.instagram.com/p/DdRRQKtIUTu
- **Gondola URL:** https://gondola.cc/posts/70383826-thesecondbutton-instagram
- **Thumbnail:** https://img.gondola.cc/tr:w-,h-,fo-auto/postThumbnails/71101e7ad8.jpg
- **Posted:** 2026-09-14T13:53:59.000+00:00
- **Account Owner:** Daniel Hakimi (@daniel-hakimi-5978d727) — https://gondola.cc/daniel-hakimi-5978d727

## Caption

The secret is that there is no secret. They combine a few little tricks with years of experience and deep talent. You can get better at styling, but you won't reach their level overnight. That said, I have tips.

1. Layer. One of the first things you'll hear if somebody competent is teaching you how to dress better. But only step one.

2. Mix aesthetics. For Ralph Lauren, the twist is usually westernwear, sometimes milsurp. For ALD, it's usually sportswear. Most of men's clothing derives from sportswear (including hunting and equestrian sports), military attire, workwear, or a few other lifestyle features over the past millennium. Also, take note: ALD us big on headwear.

3. A higher rise usually means a cleaner tuck. If you have a gut, tucking your top into low rise pants might mean that your top follows the curve of your gut and highlights it. If your stomach is flat, the effect this creates might just elongate your flat torso, which... Idk, I just don't love that.

4. Consider your whole silhouette, as well as the visual weight created by four layers. ALD's pants are usually not wide, but they're not this tapered.

5. Have fun. Yes, this will help you dress better, so I'm framing it as imperative. It plays into rule 6.

6. Make mistakes. A bad fit is not a failure, it's an opportunity to refine your style. Decide why you don't like it. The opinions of others are not a valid reason.

#styling

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