# @sheisfila on Instagram

- **Type:** Video
- **Original URL:** https://www.instagram.com/p/DdsBDjVD1eq
- **Gondola URL:** https://gondola.cc/posts/70874164-sheisfila-instagram
- **Thumbnail:** https://img.gondola.cc/tr:w-,h-,fo-auto/postThumbnails/96f9ce2b3c.jpg
- **Posted:** 2026-09-24T23:00:10.000+00:00
- **Account Owner:** Fila McMillan-Antwine (@sheisfila) — https://gondola.cc/sheisfila

## Caption

Release is necessary — because you cannot receive what you're constantly managing. 👑

If you're always initiating, you will never get someone who initiates.

If you're always fixing and planning, you will not get someone who wants to come in and solve problems for you.

If you're always checking, reminding, following up, keeping track — you will never get someone who holds themselves accountable and shows up.

If you're always explaining and rescuing, there's no reason for anyone to be accountable, because you're explaining away and justifying the bad behavior.

And if you're constantly anticipating what someone else needs, you never give yourself the ability to relax and just be — which means you're never resting in feminine energy in order to receive.

You are not open, love. You are not being a sacred queen.

A sacred queen sits on her throne. She allows people to come to her — to entertain her, to seduce her, to treat her, to love her.

So release the habits connected to the pattern. The fear. The rules you've been living by.

Stop initiating. Stop fixing. Stop planning. Stop checking in. Stop reminding. Stop explaining. Stop rescuing. Stop anticipating.

🎟️ Watch the FULL workshop replay, comment 'workshop' now!

💬 Comment which one you're releasing first.
🔖 Save this list — read it back before you initiate out of habit.

#SacredQueen #LovePatternReset #ReceivingLove #FeminineEnergy #ReleaseTheHabits #HealingJourney #AttachmentStyles #RelationshipCoach #WomenHealing #FreeWorkshop

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## Tags

healingjourney, sacredqueen, relationshipcoach, feminineenergy, womenhealing, lovepatternreset, freeworkshop, attachmentstyles, releasethehabits, receivinglove

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