# @un_filtered_wisdom on Instagram

- **Type:** Video
- **Original URL:** https://www.instagram.com/p/Dd7dlbdB2zz
- **Gondola URL:** https://gondola.cc/posts/71074709-un-filtered-wisdom-instagram
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- **Posted:** 2026-09-30T23:00:35.000+00:00
- **Account Owner:** Rhaab Grien (@un_filtered_wisdom) — https://gondola.cc/un_filtered_wisdom

## Caption

A sense of confidence born from anger doesn't automatically make you capable.

And if you're a woman who decides to step into a physical confrontation with a man and you hit him first, understand something:

You may be putting yourself at a serious physical disadvantage.

Men are generally taught to exercise restraint around women. But you cannot assume every man will maintain that restraint in the middle of a physical confrontation.

Once you throw that first punch, you've changed the situation.

Your anger doesn't make you stronger. Your confidence doesn't make you more capable. And feeling justified doesn't protect you from the physical consequences of your actions.

So before you let your emotions take control and turn an argument into a physical confrontation, think about what you're actually getting yourself into.

Because once you make it physical, you don't get to control how the other person responds.

Don't hit someone and then expect their response to follow the rules you've created in your head.

If you choose to cross that line, be prepared for the consequences.

#SelfRespect #EmotionalControl #PersonalResponsibility #Relationships #Boundaries Discipline Accountability MensMentalHealth WomensEmpowerment LifeLessons

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selfrespect, personalresponsibility, relationships, emotionalcontrol, boundaries

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