# @payalforstyle on Instagram

- **Type:** Video
- **Original URL:** https://www.instagram.com/p/DdzfJdmgGvM
- **Gondola URL:** https://gondola.cc/posts/71143693-payalforstyle-instagram
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- **Posted:** 2026-09-27T20:39:59.000+00:00
- **Account Owner:** Payal|Content Creator (@payalforstyle) — https://gondola.cc/payalforstyle

## Caption

Steadily reminded of daraghfleming and his work. 

But all of a sudden, I’m worried it won’t be enough…if I’m being honest. What if we have all the “right” conversations, stay connected, course correct as much as needed, teach them about bodies and consent (their own and others’), kindness, compassion, empathy, break cycles, fight bigotry…what if it’s not enough? 

Original poem adapted from lucassjoness 
Sure, the manosphere is a piece of it, but men have been violent toward women far before the internet existed.

I show up here often with ideas, solutions, methods. Today I’m coming to you because I realize this work can’t be done in a vacuum.

If you’re here with me, let’s talk about it. ❤️‍🩹

#raisingboys #momofboys #parenting #repost #ifieverhaveboys

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momofboys, parenting, raisingboys, ifieverhaveboys, repost

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