# @esquireindia on Instagram

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- **Original URL:** https://www.instagram.com/p/Dd6B9W8CHNi
- **Gondola URL:** https://gondola.cc/posts/71186339-esquireindia-instagram
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- **Posted:** 2026-09-30T09:38:11.000+00:00
- **Account Owner:** Esquire India (@esquireindia) — https://gondola.cc/esquireindia

## Caption

The most common ick among women right now is an aesthetic man. You know the one. He curates carousels. He takes an artsy overhead shot of his coffee, then a mirror selfie at the gym, posted with a Drake or Kanye track underneath. On paper, this is an unreasonable thing to be icked by. Men are allowed to care about vanity too. But there’s something specific about a man spending hours curating a grid that lands wrong. Men used to go to war; now the battle is a nine-slide layout and the right filter.

To find out whether this was just personal bias or a genuine cultural verdict, Arshita Suri (arshitakaursuri) asked three women what “too online” actually looks like when you’re dating someone. Share your thoughts in the comments below. 

#EsquireIndia #Dating #Ick

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