# @un_filtered_wisdom on Instagram

- **Type:** Video
- **Original URL:** https://www.instagram.com/p/DeFwtbrhReQ
- **Gondola URL:** https://gondola.cc/posts/71371475-un-filtered-wisdom-instagram
- **Thumbnail:** https://img.gondola.cc/tr:w-,h-,fo-auto/postThumbnails/e09bcb08c8.jpg
- **Posted:** 2026-10-04T22:59:17.000+00:00
- **Account Owner:** Rhaab Grien (@un_filtered_wisdom) — https://gondola.cc/un_filtered_wisdom

## Caption

Just because you're traumatized by your own bad decisions doesn't mean you're entitled to what you want simply because you didn't get it before.

If you want something or someone in your life, you have to be attractive to the thing or person you want.

That's the part people don't want to hear.

You don't get to demand a relationship, success, respect, money, or opportunities simply because you've been deprived of them.

You have to become someone who can actually attract and sustain what you're asking for.

If you aren't attractive to the thing you want, no amount of standards, demands, entitlement, or delusional beliefs is going to make it happen.

Reality doesn't negotiate with your trauma.

If you want a different outcome, become the kind of person who creates a different outcome.

#SelfAwareness #PersonalGrowth #Relationships #Accountability #RealityCheck EmotionalIntelligence SelfImprovement

## Stats

- **Views:** 2,661
- **Likes:** 17
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- **Comments:** 5

## Tags

selfawareness, accountability, relationships, personalgrowth, realitycheck

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