# @un_filtered_wisdom on Instagram

- **Type:** Video
- **Original URL:** https://www.instagram.com/p/DeD2x8ZBYxZ
- **Gondola URL:** https://gondola.cc/posts/71371476-un-filtered-wisdom-instagram
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- **Posted:** 2026-10-04T05:14:08.000+00:00
- **Account Owner:** Rhaab Grien (@un_filtered_wisdom) — https://gondola.cc/un_filtered_wisdom

## Caption

Falling in love implies that it's an unconscious process.

And that's the problem.

When you aren't aware of what's actually happening, you fail to recognize how little you truly understand about the person you're falling for.

You mix limited information with attraction, emotion, chemistry, and wishful thinking.

Then you call it love.

But circumstances eventually reveal what your emotions couldn't see.

And when the relationship falls apart, you tell yourself you're heartbroken because you lost someone you loved.

Sometimes that's not what hurts the most.

Sometimes what really hurts is realizing that your judgment wasn't nearly as good as you thought it was.

You weren't necessarily in love with the person.

You were in love with your perception of the person.

And those are two very different things.

#Relationships #Love #SelfAwareness #EmotionalIntelligence #Psychology Dating PersonalGrowth

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- **Likes:** 11
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## Tags

selfawareness, relationships, love, emotionalintelligence, psychology

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