# @un_filtered_wisdom on Instagram

- **Type:** Video
- **Original URL:** https://www.instagram.com/p/DeDQQi3hdrz
- **Gondola URL:** https://gondola.cc/posts/71371477-un-filtered-wisdom-instagram
- **Thumbnail:** https://img.gondola.cc/tr:w-,h-,fo-auto/postThumbnails/88d844dcc6.jpg
- **Posted:** 2026-10-03T23:37:42.000+00:00
- **Account Owner:** Rhaab Grien (@un_filtered_wisdom) — https://gondola.cc/un_filtered_wisdom

## Caption

Understand one thing about people.

Most people enter relationships for what they can gain, not for what they can create.

And it’s few and far between that you find someone who genuinely appreciates you for who you are and actually wants to contribute something meaningful to your life.

So when someone says, “Hey, I want to celebrate your birthday. Let’s go out.”

Don’t automatically make the faulty assumption that they’re trying to treat you.

Sometimes, they’re trying to treat themselves at your expense.

Pay attention to the pattern.

Who benefits from the relationship?
Who is always taking?
Who actually shows up when there’s nothing in it for them?

Because your relationships are going to influence the quality of your life.

You know the saying:

If you lie down with dogs, you get fleas.

Associate with low-quality people, and eventually you’re going to have low-quality experiences.

Choose your circle accordingly.

#Relationships #SelfAwareness #PersonalGrowth #Boundaries #LifeLessons Discernment Mindset

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selfawareness, lifelessons, relationships, personalgrowth, boundaries

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