# @lovethetillerys on Instagram

- **Type:** Video
- **Original URL:** https://www.instagram.com/p/DeTGj3etsbo
- **Gondola URL:** https://gondola.cc/posts/71462220-lovethetillerys-instagram
- **Thumbnail:** https://img.gondola.cc/tr:w-,h-,fo-auto/postThumbnails/ca1b1e6102.jpg
- **Posted:** 2026-10-10T03:21:18.000+00:00
- **Account Owner:** Latroy & Nicole Tillery (@lovethetillerys) — https://gondola.cc/lovethetillerys

## Caption

One thing my wife will never be is… a Married Single Mother | Part 3

Before Nicole became my wife… before she became the mother of our five children… she was her own woman. And I never want her to lose herself in the life we’ve created together.

One thing I’ve learned is that self-care requires more than time… it requires the energy and mental capacity to actually enjoy it.

So whether it’s getting her hair and nails done, enjoying her skincare routine, or spending uninterrupted time in the sauna… I make sure our children are taken care of so she can take care of herself.

Without rushing. Without guilt. Without feeling like she’s neglecting anyone.

Because I never want my wife to become so consumed with being everything to everybody… that she has nothing left for herself.

She deserves to enjoy being Nicole… not just being needed by everyone who calls her Mommy 🤎🙏🏾

#MarriedCouple #MarriedLife #HappilyMarried #MarriageGoals

## Stats

- **Views:** 16,284
- **Likes:** 1,069
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- **Comments:** 20

## Tags

happilymarried, marriedlife, marriedcouple, marriagegoals

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