# @michelleburrtx on Instagram

- **Type:** Image
- **Original URL:** https://www.instagram.com/p/B_yPZWlAmKt
- **Gondola URL:** https://gondola.cc/posts/72667491-michelleburrtx-instagram
- **Thumbnail:** https://img.gondola.cc/tr:w-,h-,fo-auto/postThumbnails/dc6dffbe30.jpg
- **Posted:** 2020-05-04T23:50:38.000+00:00
- **Account Owner:** Michelle Burr (@michelleburrtx) — https://gondola.cc/michelleburrtx

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Waiting to Transfer...
It’s the daily painful reminder that we can’t be seen by our clinic, but that I also don’t ovulate as I sit at home waiting. We worked so hard to get here & in March we were told that starting our family is considered “elective”. Yep, right there next to face lifts and boob jobs. 😑 ELECTIVE!?!? I didn’t choose to have PCOS. I didn’t choose to have a pituitary tumor. We didn’t choose to have no other option if we ever wanted a family, but here we are. It was such a hard pill to swallow because as you know, IVF isn’t the first option, it’s the last. Imagine the blood, sweat, and tears that were shed up until this point & you’re telling me that our journey is elective? Recently our clinic has opened back up BUT (here’s the kicker) they are prioritizing their patients, which we understand. For a lot of couples, time is against them so I understand, I really do. But it does make me feel like starting our family is less important which hurts.
After this new reality of being stuck in the space between egg retrieval & embryo transfer sank in for us, we had to learn to CHOOSE gratitude every single day. Thinking about our Baby Burr’s chillin’ ❄️ gets us by. I’ve always known deep inside my heart that Matt & I were made to be parents, but this period of waiting has validated that TIMES A MILLION. Baby Burr has no idea what’s waiting for them under this roof. An insurmountable amount of love, patience & kindness. 💕💙🌈 #ivfjourney #ivf #ivfsupport #ivfwarrior #ivfcommunity #ivfgotthis #ivfsisters #rainbowbaby #pcos

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ivfgotthis, ivfjourney, rainbowbaby, pcos, ivfwarrior, ivf, ivfsisters, ivfsupport, ivfcommunity

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