# @melrobbins on YouTube

- **Type:** Video
- **Original URL:** https://youtube.com/watch?v=1klDVUw31ro
- **Gondola URL:** https://gondola.cc/posts/76691388-melrobbins-youtube
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- **Posted:** 2023-07-24T09:00:02.000+00:00
- **Account Owner:** Mel Robbins (@melrobbins) — https://gondola.cc/melrobbins

## Caption

Order your copy of The Let Them Theory 👉 https://melrob.co/let-them-theory 👈 The #1 Best Selling Book of 2025 🔥 Discover how much power you truly have. It all begins with two simple words. Let Them.
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In this episode, renowned researcher, bestselling author, and total badass Ritu Bhasin (@RituBhasin  will help you step into your power.
 
Her work proves that a better life begins when you stop trying to fit in and start showing up as your #authentic self.
 
Does this sound like you?
 
- You say yes to fit in
- You stay silent and let others talk over you during meetings.
- You never ask for that raise you’ve earned.
- You let your partner and friends make all the decisions.
- You don’t have big goals because you’re afraid to fail.

Before you waste another day of your life pretending to be someone you're not, listen to this life-changing episode. 
 
You deserve better.
 
And this episode will teach you how to make the rules and be who you want to be.
 
Ritu and I will teach you how to claim your #confidence and live a bolder, badass life in 4 simple steps.
 
Game ON.
  
This is your time. Take it.
 
Xo, Mel

In this episode:
00:00 Intro
09:38 Why Ritu wanted to make an entire video about how to pronounce her name.
13:47 What it means to stand in your power.
17:02 Are you masking your true identity?
22:37 Feeling comfortable with yourself vs. hiding who you really are.. 
27:41 The #1 thing Ritu did to bring more belonging and authenticity into her life. 
35:34 3 steps to conquer uncomfortable situations.
38:08 The mantra that Ritu repeats to herself to stay in control.
41:58 How to make others feel like they belong, too, and why that matters.
45:59 The only thing you can control are your actions. 
49:54 You have 3 versions of your "self" - here’s what they are.
52:44 We are all adults stuck in a middle school brain.
57:00 The most important version of your “self” looks like this..
59:48 The #1 takeaway I want you to get from this conversation.

#authenticity #fittingin #belonging


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## Tags

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