# @lifewiththeswinneys on Instagram

- **Type:** Video
- **Original URL:** https://www.instagram.com/p/C1XMjt3ORFI
- **Gondola URL:** https://gondola.cc/posts/77365435-lifewiththeswinneys-instagram
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- **Posted:** 2023-12-27T16:13:10.000+00:00
- **Account Owner:** Dom&Alex | Dallas Influencer + Family fun (@lifewiththeswinneys) — https://gondola.cc/lifewiththeswinneys

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Oh the fight it takes, but it’s sooo dang worth it!

I’m no marriage expert, but we’ve been through quite a bit.. add 7 kids and clearly the stress is there. 
But also, life is what you make it 🤷🏼‍♀️ 
You want joy? Choose to live in joy.
You want a happy marriage, choose to be happy even when things aren’t okay.
You want to be better than your own parent? Choose to learn about yourself as you’re learning how to parent.
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It’s not black and white and it’s not easy, but choosing not to give up, while also not settling for unhappy or miserable…?! 
It changes the narrative. 
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Ya know when Jesus said “take the log out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to take the spec out of your brothers.” That mindset changes soo much! 
Feel free to DM me for prayer or to chat 🤍
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