# @lifewiththeswinneys on Instagram

- **Type:** Video
- **Original URL:** https://www.instagram.com/p/C01qNu9MoaF
- **Gondola URL:** https://gondola.cc/posts/77365465-lifewiththeswinneys-instagram
- **Thumbnail:** https://img.gondola.cc/tr:w-,h-,fo-auto/postThumbnails/80e7a797a1.jpg
- **Posted:** 2023-12-14T15:27:57.000+00:00
- **Account Owner:** Dom&Alex | Dallas Influencer + Family fun (@lifewiththeswinneys) — https://gondola.cc/lifewiththeswinneys

## Caption

I hope this post doesn’t make you feel like your doing a horrible job as a wife.. Instead I hope it just gives you a little nudge that your husband has a pretty big Job as well, and us as wives are often their biggest reasons for doing anything! Or we should be 🤍
Be his cheerleader, reminder him how much you love him and appreciate him. Try not to let your burden as a mom, roll over onto him, simply because his job might seem a little less taxing. 🤍🤍
We both play such a huge part in the lives we are living, and giving to our children, and the dreams we are chasing! 
Perspective is everything. I do my best to make sure my cup is filled with Jesus, so that way when my husband walks through the door, he’s about to see the biggest smile, a clean kitchen (not always, but I try!) and wayy tooo many compliments! Maybe a back massage if I really have the energy. 😆🫣🥰
And if not, that’s okay. I know my husband simply appreciates me not falling asleep on him, so if that’s all I have in me, I’ll start there! And days when I have more, I’ll give more. 
It’s not about being perfect, but we could all do a little better for these men who work soo hard for our families 🤍
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