bringing home a new baby is exciting for us… but for our toddlers? it can feel like their whole world just flipped upside down🌪️🩵
suddenly, they’re sharing your time… your arms… and your attention & that shift can bring out BIG feelings:
👉 Tantrums
👉 Regression (think potty accidents, clinginess, or sleep changes)
👉 Jealousy mixed with love
here’s what they’re really saying beneath the behavior:
“Do I still matter? Am I still your baby too?”
🌱 How to help them adjust:
✔️ Talk openly about the changes before and after the baby arrives
✔️ Name and validate their feelings (“It’s okay to feel mad or confused”)
✔️ Create special 1:1 moments (even 5 minutes of focused connection helps)
✔️ Remind them often: “You’ll always have a special place in my heart.”
Adjustment takes time—for all of you.
You’re not doing it wrong. ❤️ This is what growth and change look like.
Save this for a day when it feels extra hard ✨
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