One year ago, we announced our engagement. Tears were shed, love was cherished, and virginities were nearly lost. But in a flash, it was all over. We haven’t spoken publicly about why we called off our engagement, and in the spirit of transparency, we decided it was important to finally be honest. After a lot of long and difficult conversations, Grant realized something about himself, a fact he’s only dared to speak out loud a few times in his life. He was done hiding who he was, and a few days after proposing, he decided to come clean. The truth about Grant is… he doesn’t want to get married until he’s in his thirties and feeling closer to God. I know what you’re thinking… how could Grant keep such a big part of himself hidden from you, Ash? It was difficult for me to accept, mainly because I’ve been counting down the days until we can consummate this relationship. But ultimately, my man knows best, and he is only comfortable with hand stuff right now. I just love how respectful he ...