#ADHD in children - have you experienced this? Children with ADHD also tend to have low levels of dopamine and adrenaline, which can make them feel under-stimulated. That’s where the conflict comes in. They look for ways to activate their brain. Yelling, screaming, or engaging in power struggles actually stimulates their brain. Your angry reaction becomes their emotional fuel. They don’t consciously seek it out, but when they have a meltdown and you explode, they get a hit of adrenaline and dopamine—and it feels good to their brain. So what should you do instead of yelling? These behavior strategies for ADHD will help you respond more effectively—without feeding the conflict. 1. Take Responsibility For Your Mood. Your child’s behavior is not an excuse to lose control. Take a few seconds to pause and center yourself before reacting. Remember, your calmness can help regulate your child’s nervous system. 2. Don’t Speak Until You’re Calm. Make a rule for yourself: No talking until y...