#GenesisPartner. Yes, I met Anthony (my husband) on a dating website! And let me tell you: I had a much better idea of what I wanted in a partner at that time, because I had a much better idea of who I was. That’s the thing they don’t teach you in school or that your parents might neglect to instill in you before you fall in love. Some of you might have been born with it, but I had to learn the hard way. Believe it or not, I knew that Anthony was the one for me in the middle of one our massive knock-down-drag-out fights. Why? Because he never shut me down or locked me out no matter how angry or upset I grew. I never felt like I had to be this other person in order to protect myself from him. The feeling was so new and exhilarating but also affirming—I’d found a man who was strong enough to love me without trying to shrink me. My love language, as you know, is food. And one of the most labor intensive dishes I have in my arsenal is kimbap. It’s a fairly standard Korean snack food, usu...