âThe trouble with people is that theyâre busy fixing things they donât even understand. Weâre always fixing things, arenât we? It never strikes us that things donât need to be fixed. They really donât. This is great illumination. They need to be understood. If you understood them, theyâd change.â - Anthony De Mello, Awareness
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Iâve spent so much time trying to figure out how to fix my situation or how to fix the way my brain works or how to fix this, that or the other thing. But then I read the above excerpt and my opinion of said âproblemsâ changed. What if I stopped trying to fix them and started to see, feel + understand them? What if I gave them room to exist and allowed the Universe to work? What if the problems are there because theyâre things I need to understand in order to grow?
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Imagine just allowing things in your life to exist without always trying to âfixâ them. Imagine not running from them, but staying a while and finding an understanding. It sounds so simple, but weâr...