Raise your hand if the topic of "submission" makes you feel uncomfortable 🙋‍♀️🙋‍♂️ . . . it's okay to say it! As scary as that "S" word can be, there's another "S" word that is even scarier in marriage: selfishness. In marriage, we are called to give to each other 100 percent and expect nothing in return, which is extremely difficult 😰. Because in our flesh, we don’t want to sacrifice our desires. We want to do what we want to do. In other words, it is HARD to lay down our selfishness to love our spouses well. Marriage is a university of UNlearning selfishness. Click the link in our bio to listen to "Marriage: Breakable, But Beautiful" by jpokluda on FamilyLife's Today podcast to learn more about how sacrifice and selfishness affect your marriage. #Outdated #familylifetoday #Marriagetips #Marriagegoals #Marriage #podcast #marriageministry