"If I could go back to that coma state I would. But I can’t. Denial actually hurts more than facing the truth: That we are meant to feel pain, and that Ravi’s death is a reason to grieve deeply." Last year, the SJ Magazine family experienced a devastating tragedy when Exec. Editor @jayne_jacova lost her 17-year-old son in a horrible car accident. In the months that have passed, Jayne has shared some personal thoughts for SJ Mag readers. #justsaysj #southjersey