going from an app match to an IRL date can be awkward no matter what, but if you want to increase your odds of success, here are a few tips - 1) suggest a specific activity (eg coffee, dinner, drinks) and two potential times - something along the lines of ‘hey would you want to grab a drink on tuesday or thursday around 6:30pm?’ Bonus points if you include a few spots and they’re equidistant from you and your match 2) don’t make the invitation to go out your first, second, or even third message if you’re using an app like hinge, bumble, or tinder. Safety concerns are real. Invest a couple days getting to know them through the app before suggesting an IRL meetup. If you meet on an app like Blink, you’ve already had a ten minute phone chat, so you can invite them out a bit sooner if the vibe was there. 3) confirm the day before the date that you’re still on to meet. Some believe the man needs to confirm and some don’t care either way - tbh i don’t believe that it should matter very...