#SayWhat?! It seemed like everything was great and mutual,” the man wrote of his 29-year-old ladylove of four years. “This stupid idea of hers completely blindsided me. I could tell that she had been thinking about it for some time, and just waiting for the perfect moment to bring it up.” Adding insult to injury, the fiancée claims her adulterous idea is a “healthy” way to go into wedlock. Should he end the engagement or do a compromise?