3 questions I ask on every first date as a 31 year old who’s intentionally dating: These may sound like heavy/ loaded questions but you don’t need to get super deep 1. Do you love what you do? Your 20s is all about figuring it out… but the guys I’m dating are generally 30+ so I think at this point you should have found a spot where you’re happy. If you’re not that’s fine too! Just not for me. 2. Have you been in a relationship over a year? For me this is important bec I don’t want to teach someone the basics of what it’s like to incorporate me into their life, how to solve conflicts & how to get past the honeymoon phase. Obviously every relationship has its learning curve… I also think it’s important to see how they speak about it on a basic level. Are they super negative on their ex? Etc. It’s very telling even if you don’t go deeply into it & I would suggest you don’t esp on a first date. 3. What’s your relationship like with your family? This is all to see what their family val...