In my 30’s I spent too much of my time feeling deeply insecure. Because of that feeling, I surrounded myself with things, people, circumstances to selfishly boost my esteem on a daily basis. When I look back, I can see the colossal waste of time and energy. In my 40’s, I can already feel my priorities taking a major shift. I’m so much kinder to myself without losing my sense of ambition or work ethic. I still struggle with perfectionist tendencies, but am aware of the unhelpful feelings of inadequacy and try to shake them off. I feel better entering this decade than any other. The mission is “lose the BS, but don’t lose the edge.” And as a good student (with a side of perfectionism) I’m on task. How do you feel as you age? #forties #danceworkout #motherhood #fitness #workout #dancebody #aging #embracechange