We all know that one girl ... For this week's #GoingThroughIt, emilybooksgould responds to a letter writer whose friendships don't exactly align with her financial goals: "Having friends and a social life is important for your mental health. It’s even important for your physical health — scientists have found that people with strong social bonds are less affected by age-related illnesses. Having savings is important, too, but not at the cost of your friendships." Read her full response at the link in bio. Illustration: Emma Erickson