Watching my husband go through back surgery this week and now stepping into the role of “caregiver” for the first time, has taught me new lessons. Here’s what I’ve learned so far… 1. Your role changes—and you have to let it. I’m used to being the one who overcomes, who figures things out, who finds a way forward. But this isn’t my mountain to climb. My role isn’t to lead—it’s to support. And that means letting go of control and shifting my energy to what he needs, not what I think needs to happen. 2. Compassion Fatigue is Real—And No One Talks About It: You pour everything into them. You wake up thinking about their needs. You go to sleep worrying about them. And at some point, your own emotional reserves start to run dry. It doesn’t mean you don’t love them. It doesn’t mean you’re failing. It just means you’re human. And recognizing that exhaustion before it turns into resentment is crucial. 3. Strength Isn’t What You Think It Is: Being strong isn’t just about showing up and hol...