I wasn’t looking to be chosen, I was choosing. In my 30s, dating stopped being about games or “seeing where it goes.” I knew what I wanted, and I wasn’t afraid to say it. My dating style? Direct, intentional, and deeply values-driven. I wasn’t afraid to ask real questions early on because surface-level wasn’t going to cut it anymore. That’s why I used hinge. I could filter for the things that actually mattered. Honesty. Depth. Emotional maturity. The green flags that only come into focus when you’ve done the work on yourself. And the moment I felt that kind of energy? I didn’t overthink it—I leaned in. #HingePartner #DesignedToBeDeleted #DatingWithIntention #GreenFlagDating