“I’m not upset with my choice of getting an abortion, I’m upset that my first time being pregnant wasn’t the blissful memory I thought it would be. I got pregnant while on the pill. My first ever relationship, my only partner, and the man I wish to spend my whole life with. We had always had hopes of the future, one filled with kids, financial stability, and our dream careers. In college, too young, and a month late on my period, I remember taking the test together. We were filled with fear, knowing that if it was positive we were not ready in any aspect to provide for a child. My first time wasn’t supposed to be stripped away from me bawling on the bathroom floor. My first time was supposed to be when we were ready and praying abundantly for a child; to find joy in the news. I’m still mad that the fantasy I had in my head about what it would one day be like was far from the reality we faced. My abortion was one I was at peace with, I never second guessed my decision. I just simply w...