“…I was pregnant, I didn’t want to be pregnant, and I wanted to end the pregnancy as soon as possible. I had great clarity on that. It was a moment in the tortured history of abortion when abortion was safe, legal, and, at least where I lived, fairly uncontroversial. Imagine. You do need to imagine because that moment didn’t last long.
…When I was in college abortion was illegal. I had heard the stories from friends about their illegal abortions. Some had gone well, discreetly done in a swanky doctor’s office. Others done in shame and secrecy and risk with some women not surviving the ordeal intact. A friend who loved children and longed to have them was made sterile from her back street abortion. I feel sure that loss has been with her all these years. It never goes away.
My abortion, which happened less than a decade later, was a trip to a clinic, an out-patient procedure, and a taking it easy for the rest of the day. My partner came with me to the clinic, drove me home, ...
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