It’s hard to remember that weddings are supposed to be fun when you’re busy stressing over whether your Nuuly rental is black-tie appropriate. And honestly, that’s one of the easy ones. Weddings in general have become far more of an ordeal thanks to social media and the comparison game, and they’re now so customized and curated that even the dress codes have started to sound like Mad Libs. And while there are helpful spaces on the internet, like the r/Weddingattireapproval sub-Reddit, sometimes crowdsourcing opinions on an outfit can be a nightmare for people who are more shy. But instead of reaching out to the bride or groom or anyone else walking down the aisle to ask if what you’re wearing is appropriate, consult our #PlusOneWeek guide first — live at the link in bio.