Want better relationships? It starts with this one overlooked skill. There’s one skill that keeps families, teams, and communities functioning: the ability to see people clearly and to let yourself be seen. David Brooks talks about illuminators and diminishers—but this isn’t about calling out “them” versus “us.” Everyone slips into diminisher behavior sometimes: we stereotype, tune out, or ignore. Illuminators are the people who make others feel noticed, curious, and fully heard. The goal isn’t to keep score; it’s to practice the skill. Pay attention when you’re diminishing. Notice when someone else is illuminating. Seeing clearly—and being seen—changes how people show up, and how we show up together. #Politics #Relationships #Insight #Skill