This will lead to a lot more happiness .. even if it’s tougher in the short term it will lead to a lot more long term happiness :) for both the kids and the parents - a lot of resentment is created in these situations and I promise it maybe hard but the 10,000’s thousands of DM’s I’ve read on this over the the last decade have me pretty passionate about it .. ♥️♥️♥️♥️ #parenting #lifeadvice #youngster