For most of my life I confused love with control. If I cared about you, I tried to “help” by steering your choices, your moods, even your timing, because that made me feel safe. But I realized at 54 that the harder I pushed, the harder they pulled away. If you’re feeling constant friction with someone you care about, back up a step. Let Them 💚 Hear more from this conversation with @Davina McCall on this episode of the @Begin Again ❤️ #melrobbins #letthem #letthemtheory #controlling