And giving YOU so much permission & love as you feel through it! Gender disappointment doesn’t make you any less grateful for bringing life into the world, but it challenges the way you envisioned things. And that’s fair. For me, my gender disappointment challenged my own gender biases. Opening my heart to this idea & these boys the moment they were earth side has shown me I was meant to be their momma all along. The plan was always grander than me. I love learning so much from them each day…I love learning more about who I am and what I’m capable of as I raise them to be kind, empathetic, confident, and creative boys 💜 #genderdisappointment #momofboys #youcandoitallbyyourself #motherhood