Episode 40. And we keep on keepin on. I think Carter is so involved with helping dress and feed and care for Dev because he sees dad do it. I don’t think it will even occur to him that it’s not part of his role as a father & partner (one day!?) Being the default parent is really hard. I don’t see this that often in family structures anymore as in most cases there are two working parents, and something as simple as dressing the child is never left to one person…or is it? Do you feel like the default parent? Have you talked about this with your partner? #dustyson #dustydaughter #dusty #trending #defaultparent #raisingsons #raisingyoungmen #raisingboys #momofboys #momofsons