I know need help but like…do I want it!? Was having a convo with a friend at work on this topic - both of us asking ourselves, “why are we like this!!?” It got me thinking and I ended up researching the topic to find it’s allll too common. According to @theeverymom there are 3 main reasons moms struggle to accept help. 1. Cultural Norms - based on what you grew up with and what your culture dictates, motherhood is often seen as a one woman job. Do it all, and do it all well. What we fail to consider is how culture changes over time, and we can’t keep trying to fit a a contemporary lifestyle into archaic ideals. Redefining culture & creating a new normal that works for your own life is ok. 2. Approval/comparison - I find myself too often seeking validation. From who?! Idk!! I feel like a good mom when my children behave well in public, eat well, are kind and well mannered. If I accept too much help, what does that say about my ability to manage them? Nothing! It takes a village! M...