“You won’t be able to get to good if you’re not willing to look stupid”
This was one of the first pieces of advice I got when I started dancing a couple years ago.
If embarrassment was the price to become good then I was willing to pay it. It also cost:
Being uncomfortable
Feeling stupid
Doubting myself
Failing over and over again
I had no natural ability for dance, I didn’t have any talent… I felt so dumb so many times. I was so discouraged when I started because I was putting in so many hours of training and not seeing nearly the progress as those around me.
I hoped being an athlete would help me improve but wrestling just gave me a strong mindset to not give up. I paid for private lessons thinking that would speed it up, it didn’t. I took a variety of classes, travelled the world learning from some of the best instructors, I studied. I trained when I was injured, in bathrooms, basements or wherever.
But I knew I had this limiting belief deep down that maybe I would nev...
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