James and Dani are rewriting the rules of what a straight couple looks like. James first captured the Internet’s attention back in 2022, when a viral video featuring him and his then-girlfriend Maren sparked conversation across social media. Viewers were intrigued by a feminine man and a masculine woman being in a heterosexual relationship. Now James is married to Dani and they share a 9-month-old daughter, Carsyn, and he documents his family life to his 300,000 plus followers on TikTok. Their approach to gender expression extends naturally into their parenting style. James is a stay-at-home dad, while Dani provides for the family — a dynamic they say simply works best for them. Because of his more feminine presentation, James once identified as gay before realising that label didn’t truly fit who he was. With James’s growing online presence, the couple often faces scepticism about the authenticity of their relationship. Over time, James and Dani have learned to tune out the noi...