The biggest moments of growth don’t usually come from career changes or big life events. They happen within relationships because nothing reflects your patterns back to you like the people you love. Family relationships taught me this first. You don’t get to choose your family, and for me, learning to set boundaries has been one of the hardest things. Becoming a mother made it even more complicated. I show up for my kids with everything I have… and as they grow, I’ve had to learn the difference between empowering them and enabling them. Pulling back, letting them make mistakes, not fixing everything… that still triggers my mom guilt. But it’s also where I grow the most. Romantic relationships have been their own mirror. There was a long time when I didn’t realize I wasn’t being a great partner. Not because I didn’t care, but because I didn’t know myself well enough to show up differently. And relationships will teach you quickly: you can’t create happiness through someone else, and n...