LET'S GET MESSY!!! 🫖 👀 We're thrilled to announce that we're re-launching The Cut's advice column, #GOINGTHROUGHIT, to help you with life’s newest and gnarliest problems. Features writer Allison P. Davis (babymeatballs) and senior editor Amy Rose Spiegel (verymuchso) — our new columnists — want your questions about friendship, love, work, and whatever else you’re fixating on. Write to us for some non-expert, but very reliable guidance at goingthroughit@nymag.com.