When we become foster/adoptive parents, we have to make sure what we're doing is not retraumatizing the children in our care. Food insecurities are real. I've come a long way in distancing myself from hurtful rhetoric even if it's meant jokingly doesn't make it less harmful! ***This comment was in reference to a tiktok I made regarding things moms say to their children and she added this...nothing wrong with what she said, I just added my perspective as a foster mom now*** . #whenweknowbetterwedobetter #fostercare #fosterparenting #fostermom